No specs. No 0–60 time. No cargo volume in cubic feet.
Just one question:
After a year (or more) of real life – school runs, grocery trips, road trips, broken toys in the back seat – would you buy the same car again?Not "is it perfect."
Just: knowing what you know now, same budget, same options – yes or no?

I'll go first.
Car: 2021 Honda CR‑V EX‑L
Owned: 14 months
Would I buy it again? Yes. But with one small regret.
The yes part:
The space is perfectly sized for one toddler and a 50‑mile commute. Rear doors open wide. Trunk floor is low. I never fight the car.
The regret:
I wish I'd spent a little more for the hybrid version. The regular 1.5L turbo is fine, but the gas savings and smoother stop‑start of the hybrid would've paid off over time.
So my answer: Yes, but CR‑V Hybrid instead of regular.
Now here's what other parents told me when I asked this question
RAV4 owner (2020, owned 2 years):
"Yes, but only the hybrid. The regular one is loud and cheap inside. The hybrid feels like a different car. Would not buy the gas version again."CX‑5 owner (2022, owned 18 months, one kid):
"No. And I feel bad saying it. I love driving it. But the back seat is too tight now that my kid is forward‑facing and kicking. If I only had one kid and no plans for another, yes. But we're trying for #2, so no."Sienna owner (2021, owned 3 years, three kids):
"100% yes. I used to make fun of minivans. Now I tell everyone: just skip the SUV phase and get the van. Sliding doors alone are worth it."Model Y owner (2023, owned 13 months, two kids):
"No. I wanted to love it. The frunk is fun. But road trips are stressful with charging, and my wife hates the screen for everything. Going back to a CR‑V or RAV4 hybrid."Outback owner (2019, owned 4 years, two kids + dog):
"Yes, but only the 3.6R (older one). The new turbos are fine but the naturally aspirated 6‑cylinder was bulletproof. I'd buy the exact same car again if I could find low miles."Sorento PHEV owner (2022, owned 20 months):
"No. Too many little electrical glitches. The concept is great. The execution is frustrating. Trading it in next month for a Highlander Hybrid."The pattern I'm seeing
Type of owner | Would buy again? |
|---|---|
CR‑V / RAV4 Hybrid owners | Mostly yes |
CR‑V / RAV4 non‑hybrid owners | Mixed (many wish they'd upgraded) |
CX‑5 owners with 1 kid | Yes |
CX‑5 owners with 2+ kids | Mostly no |
Minivan owners (any brand) | Overwhelmingly yes |
EV owners with home charging + 2 cars | Yes |
EV owners as only family car | Mixed to no |
Kia/Hyundai PHEV owners | Surprisingly low (glitches) |
Now your turn
Post your answer in this format:
Car: [year, make, model, trim]
Owned: [months or years]
Kids/ages: [optional but helpful]
Would you buy it again? Yes / No / Yes but different trim
One sentence why:
The point isn't to find the "best" car.
The point is to help the next parent avoid your mistake – or repeat your smart move.
So: knowing what you know now… would you?
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